Infantilism- how it affects relationships?

2022-11-07

In fact, infantilism is a “stuck” at a certain, childish, stage of personality development, the continuation of childhood in adulthood. This is not a disease, not a pathology, not a deviation, but a stage of personality development. Infantilism does not pose any direct threat to a person; it is not a disease or pathology. However, it is quite dangerous to build a relationship with a person with a fragile personality. Talking about this issue in a "relationship context" is extremely important because one of the clearest examples of the infantile subject is the women who depend on men. Do not jump to the conclusion that you are no longer expected to take care of a woman and pay for her. You still have to be a gentleman. 

Usually, infantilism has a childhood trauma behind it. Behavior like a child is a serious reason to think about a visit to a psychotherapist. This is the type of girls who have not yet formed consciousness. The actions of such a girl will be full of tears for no reason and stupid insults! Such people are prone to frequent mood swings, impulsiveness and tantrums. The main thing is that there is no awareness in such actions, but there is a typical unconscious emotional reaction: it occurs before a person has time to think. Do not start a relationship with such a girl, because it is literally impossible to make long-term plans with her!  In addition, such ladies live one day and do not know how to manage your money economically. No matter what she looks like and what she admires, is responsible for herself and other people, earns a living on time, pays her bills on time, does not forget to eat and take care of her appearance, knows how to resolve conflicts and discuss problems. Avoid also long term relationship with her because she is capable of suicide if you want to leave her.

But be careful with the determinations of an infantile girl! Being creative, singing and talking a lot, is not childish. That is her personality.